You should have been approved... but if you don't get approved from now to next weekend then endeavor to reach out to them through your Congressman, the earlier the better. Congratulations
Okay, I'm guessing you didn't file the K3 since you are yet to answer that... I'm sorry, but you could still be approved this month but please don't get your hopes high. Realistically, you should be approved next month max for sure
Taking a look at your timeline, it took 10 years for you guys to file after getting married...
If you filed K3 few days or weeks after filing your i130, then sure you will be approved this month.