Hey guys,
I am in a perplexed and uncomfortable state as I write this. My fiance K1 got approved, and I do have a kid with her. However, we’ve been in a constant fight mood with no understanding between us.
I support she and my daughter financially but she chooses to follow friends and has even surrounded herself with male friends that she chooses to hang out with and lied to me about it. I’ve confronted her and made her to understand that I dislike the idea but she wouldn't listen to me.
Now, after she has gotten approved, there are numerous pieces of information reaching me that she was unfaithful behind my back. I was interested in establishing a relationship with my fiance, but with the information I’ve received, it has shattered me. I don't know what do anymore!
One of her friends even sends me a picture of she and her ex on a vacation while I am depriving myself of many things to ensure that she and my daughter are well taken of. At this point, I want to withdraw the application but she is using my daughter as a means to get here. My daughter is already an American, and she has her passport which I got through her home country. If she doesn't come, there will be many years of missing out on my daughter's life. When I thought the approval should’ve been a time to celebrate, but now it's a time for self reflection.
For days, I am unable to focused and even be productive at work because of this situation. I really do miss my daughter, but I also don’t want put myself in harms if comes here with that bad behavior of hers.
If I decide to withdraw the application,
What are the steps necessary to do that?