@da95826
thank you for your advice
i met my husband after 8 years. We’ve been married 5 years already
We Are not from the same country. He is from Dominican Republic , I am from Tajikistan. He was never married before. His father brought him to US at the age of 5 since then he had his green card but never really applied to become a citizen. He got his citizenship last months. My son has both of our last names
thank you again