Hi, I'm a Feb 2022 filer, and I don't know anything about a "first in first out" assurity. Wouldn't it be great if that was the case, but the best we have is a general idea. If your case is like mine, the "your case is being actively reviewed" (or we call it "AR" around here) will stay in that status the entire time, until the "RFE" or "NOA2". I filed electronically on Feb 5 2022. The electronic filing was received to the Texas Service Center on Feb 5 2022. That was the last update. That was 377 days ago. Another user mentioned chatting with USCIS via ”Emma" as a means to find out if my case was transferred... Turns out that indeed it was! Also on Feb 5 2022, to Potomac Service Center. No mention of that in the USCIS user portal.
Based on the crowd-souce info that others and ourselves provide, we are fairly confident that this type of "service" is normal. That the "general idea" about time is fairly accurate.
I have seen numerous posts about the estimated date passing, and the obvious disappointment associated with that, then 2 days or 2 weeks later they are posting that it was finally approved. So hang in there. Try not to get discouraged if someone who filed after you gets approved before you. You can expect it.
As for me and my wife, we pray about it, and the rest is out of our hands. Our job is to live committed and grow, regardless of the circumstances. It hasn't always been easy, but I think the challenges that we all share contribute to a truly devoted partnership with our spouses.