Silas Ibrahim

The evidence that I have, I already sent in with my I-751 filing. The only other evidence that I can show is from sending her gift’s, money for bill’s, and food delivery. We have a car in both our name’s, and the two affidavits from her kid’s, we no longer have a joint account, nor authorized user’s on each other’s accounts. I want to add her to my pension, but I do not have her social security card anymore, and she say’s that pension’s are for loved one’s, so I have no way of adding her to it. I don’t know what else to do other than talk to Hacking as suggested.

I don’t know if a lot of my questions and responses are being seen, I looked up trolling that the guy say’s he believes of me. I don’t know why he would think such, when I am baring my personal life with strangers in order to get answer’s and figure out which route to take, in order to receive an approval on my pending I-751. But to all who gave me considerate response’s, whether hopeful, or hopeless, thanks so much. And thanks so much for your best wishes, seems like I will really need them.

The shelter that I lived in about a week or so advised me to file, and I told them to cancel it when we got back together, but I don’t know what the outcome was. I was reported for abuse on her in my country, but she did not cooperate with authorities. The VAWA was June of last year.

We are both guilty, that’s why. She reported me before, but did not get me locked up.

She want’s counseling, not me. And I am not sure of what might happen, anything can change, but I will be talking to a lawyer.

I really don’t know what to do, I have never experienced this before. I want to get a lawyer now, before it is decided. No, I haven’t informed USCIS of my move, but since I have been gone for several month’s now, my wife has told me to contact them.

My friend’s from other countries, that I work with have given me advice to file VAWA and I did, only I went back and we filed together after the filing of the VAWA petition.

Thanks I will talk to Hacking about my case.

No I am not

Thank you for your help

I told her that we should put everything in God’s hands, and see where he leads us. We are both unsure of the future, and even though it is very complicated right now, and she doesn’t trust me, I think that with time we might be able to overcome our problems and move forward whether we are together or not. Thanks for your responses!

Will my chances be better for an approval, if I do everything you said, or will I be wasting my time?

I don’t know what she will say really, but she will not lie, she’s a Christian, and wishes me well. No, it’s not for a green card, I won’t be filing for divorce.

I do love my wife, we just have too many problems. She think’s that I was trying to use her, but I am not, she still wishes me well, she is older, and a Christian.

Thank you Thanks, I will check it out!

I heard that they are waiving interview’s for I-751, but I don’t think that she will say much of anything, but I know that she will not lie about our separation’s.

Do I need to get a lawyer?

Okay thanks for clarifying.

No, we are not together, I don’t know if she will take me back this time, because of my living situation. We aren’t working on the marriage, she want’s to go to counseling, but I declined. I don’t really know if I want to continue on in the marriage either, so divorce is possible. She doesn’t trust anything that I say anymore. I will not file for divorce.

I’m in big trouble, how? Do you know of anyone who has been in a similar situation, and their outcome?

No OldUser, is not a joke, and what is meant by trolling? What does OP and ROC mean please? And I can be removed? Is there anything that I can do to prevent it? Thanks Yes, I think so! Last time we talked, that was my understanding.

Thanks Redro, so do you think that the evidence that I have will be enough? We had much more during the I-130 process. Will any of the mistake’s I made cause issue’s if cause problem’s if I divorce and go through the process alone? I appreciate your kindness in your response to my concern’s.

By the way, my wife is nearly 20 years my senior.

And also, what will happen when the case is pending in the NBC and USCIS receives online tips of marriage fraud, even though my spouse and I lived together 2 years abroad and I received my CR1 at that time, but we separated twice within the two year’s of being abroad, but filed an I-751 jointly, but separated two months after the filing, and had only been back together two months before filing? We only have a car together in both our names, wised it as evidence of a valid marriage, two affidavits from her children, no bank accounts together after closing an account that we both shared, and now have separate accounts? We lived together a year before separation the first time, and I started sending her gifts and helping pay bill’s by sending her money, after I left the second time, and never bought gifts for her before, and the first separation, I barely sent anything except for, for her to pay a bill that we once shared, and for my bills before I started paying them myself. We have few pictures together within the two year’s, no vacation’s to show, and I accused her of DV, and tried to bring a VAWA petition against her after leaving the first time, but ended up going back, and filling together. Will immigration believe that my love for her is real, and that we entered into the marriage for love? I also had an affair with a lady that claimed to be pregnant by me, and am currently living in a two bedroom apartment with two other foreign women, that my wife did not know about, and I also lived with them before, and bought one of them a phone worth over $1,000.00, and we tried to get a car together, and her name appears on my credit report, even though we were denied the purchase of a car. What if any problems am I facing with them knowing all of this? Thanks

What does it mean when the automated phone system say’s, we are working on your I-751, rather than we are actively reviewing it? And what does it mean when you can no longer view the statu, and history of your case in your online account, and it show’s this