Maybe I didnt type it right on the OP, but I did complete the visa application, and did get the certification of application, but did not get a link to pay, nor an email telling me where to go pay for it.
My understanding is that it needs to get the date assigned, prior to getting the "emergency speed up" (I kinda need my wife here in the states pretty badly, I go in for a super serious and dangerous operation around March 1st (LVAD heart pump)