Hi Verrou:
We are still thinking about applying for K1. and we are still on the fence a bit on this issue. I take your reasoning that we would put the marriage never occured because there is no document or record showing, and Indonesia government does not legally support Niki Siri. Since there is no record, no Marriage certificate, or divorce what would be the harm of saying she was never legally married?
If we say she was married, all we can do is say it was Niki Siri marriage, there is no document showing a marriage occurred legally, and we can not show any proof from Indonesian government. They have to take our word for it. She may be able to get something from the village head saying they were married and then divorced but it is not official document from the government. This is our biggest worry right now.