Hi all! I stumbled onto VJ upon researching for my current situation. I did some searching, found some old topics, but I have a few things that I want to ask and get some clarification on. We are currently legally married, we got married in a civil ceremony in September of 2022 this year in Canada, Ontario. We received our official certificate last month. We've been doing on and off LDR for our entire relationship, with several trips between Canada and States. We're planning for our Ceremony in July of 2023, and she is about to leave Canada next month to return home, and to plan more of our ceremony. My job is remote, so I am used to working while in the States while dealing with time zone differences. I was planning on going down to visit her for her birthday in late March. I had heard that I could file for an AoS when I arrive. I do have strong ties to Canada, and I have not fully committed to this idea. We were going to begin the CR-1 visa process post-ceremony, though that could take quite a long time from what I understand.
What are some advantages and disadvantages at this state? I know that if I file my AoS, I will not be able to travel until my AD comes back. I am okay with this. I'm looking for what might be the easiest solution to ensure that we are no longer doing LDR every several months.
I've never had any issues with visiting the States, and they've always let me go through. This is the first time, however, I will be crossing and telling them I will be visiting for my wife's birthday.
Would I qualify to file for my I-130, 485, 785 and 131 once I arrive in the States if I do change my mind when I arrive?
Thanks in advance!