Hi Crazy Cat,
Thanks for your reply and all that information. We submitted the K-1 mid September. It is in process, but as you mentioned it will be a long time until she can be here, and even longer until she can work. We considered the K-1 and CR-1 and made a decision this past summer which one we would pursue. But now we're having second thoughts on the K-1 route given the length of time. Is it possible to do the CR-1 now while the K-1 is in process, and if the CR-1 is completed first cancel the K-1? Will they inferfere with each other or cause conflict?
This whole process and all the visa and timelines have been extremely confusing for us. We should've gotten a lawyer a long time ago. I deeply regret not figuring it all out a long time ago, but this is where we are now and so am seeking a good path forward now. Thanks for your response and providing this information.
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Be aware that she will not be able to work or exit the US for as long as 8 months after entering and marrying via a K-1. How can she get a J-1 with immigrant intent?
Every couple has their own priorities, and each couple must decide which visa is better for their situation.
K-1
More expensive than CR-1
Requires Adjustment of Status after marriage (expensive and requires a lot of paperwork)
Spouse can not leave the US until she/he receives approved Advance Parole (approx 6-8 months)
Spouse can not work until she/he receives EAD (approx 6-8 months)
Some people have had problems with driver licenses, Social Security cards, leases, bank account during this period
Spouse will not receive Green Card for many months after Adjustment of Status is filed.
A K-1 might be a better choice when 18-21 year old children are immigrating also
In some situations, marriage can affect certain Home country benefits, making a K-1 a better choice
A denied K-1 is sent back to USCIS to expire
CR-1
Less expensive than K-1
No Adjustment of Status(I-485, I-131, I-765) required.
Spouse can immediately travel outside the US
Spouse is authorized to work immediately upon arrival.
Spouse receives Social Security Card and Green Card within 2 or 3 weeks after entering the US
Opening a bank account, getting a driver's license, etc. are very easily accomplished with GC, SS card, and passport.
Spouse has legal permanent Resident status IMMEDIATELY upon entry to US.