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Have you read the guides?
 
All the info is available on USCIS.gov.  A very wise VJ elder advises folks to become A+ students of the entire immigration process.  Do as much reading as you can, especially if you are the petitioner.  It is not fast, cheap or easy.  Own your process.

Is your GF on a J-1 w/ a 2 year home requirement? You shouldn't make any plans yet until you have this answer.

Ask her to go. Odds are high that they will want to do the 751 interview at the same time. 
If she doesn't show, then you get put back in the queue and are waiting who knows how long.

Ask her to go. Odds are high that they will want to do the 751 interview at the same time. 
If she doesn't show, then you get put back in the queue and are waiting who knows how long.

Ask her to go. Odds are high that they will want to do the 751 interview at the same time. 
If she doesn't show, then you get put back in the queue and are waiting who knows how long.

She has a 10 year ban to face for her overstay. She needs to leave now and serve it.

She has a 10 year ban to face for her overstay. She needs to leave now and serve it.

I think people are being dismissive. OP should be able to access their account, period. Yes, they can check it externally but maybe they have their own reasons, like uploading evidence. I only received emails and my husband received a mix of emails and text messages so it's important to keep your contact info updated.
 
You should be able to get the access code. I never received mine in the mail so I made a request and they sent me a new one. 700 days with no word is way too long, something is wrong.
 
Are you using the right receipt # for the right user? For example, if you are the petitioner, you are only allowed access to the 130. If you are the beneficiary, you are allowed access to the other forms. Perhaps you're trying to get something you're not "allowed" to have.
 

It's unlikely. If they approved and waived you in May, you wouldn't still be waiting in Sept.

It's unlikely. If they approved and waived you in May, you wouldn't still be waiting in Sept.

It's unlikely. If they approved and waived you in May, you wouldn't still be waiting in Sept.

You seem to be using Immigration as a means to avoid appointing a Divorce Lawyer.

You are making a bigger mess than you need to by being inactive in the process and playing the whatabout game.
File for divorce. Hire an immigration lawyer to sort out your story and amend your ROC w/ divorce waiver. 

You are making a bigger mess than you need to by being inactive in the process and playing the whatabout game.
File for divorce. Hire an immigration lawyer to sort out your story and amend your ROC w/ divorce waiver. 

You are making a bigger mess than you need to by being inactive in the process and playing the whatabout game.
File for divorce. Hire an immigration lawyer to sort out your story and amend your ROC w/ divorce waiver. 

That legal case was an interesting read, thank you! Seems like the requirement will be met in just a couple years between the 2 of us.