mikeisabstract

Disability can take years to get In the mean time medical records can show i do have issues and pain.

Form i 129f question Im not legally disabled but i do have 2 issues with chrons disease/ibs they cant diagnose it right as im constantly in bathroom. And i have chronic lower back pain preventing me from standing or sitting for more then 30 min at a time without pain. Im not a great candidate for any job but an at home one, but with these issues, even then, im on the toliet for hours at a time. Maybe 1 4th the day sometimes, so even at home it is difficult and with back pain im basically walking or laying down as i work with my pain, its so uncomfortable. I met my spouse here in philippines, and she is pregnant now 5 months. I been getting paid by my mom for 1k a month with some investments i made. We formed a business and she uses the profit from it to pay me 1k.she is also sponsoring me for the income requirment, and so i have some sort of tax forms showing i make some amount of cash. Im paying taxes basically on a madeup business of me managing my own money to show i have an income essentially. I cant get a job and the pain is bad. Im am blessed i was able to invest in good markets but now im having an issue. My mom is having health issues and needs someone to assist her. She has insurance, so if needed im sure she can get someone to help. shes having issues walking and has had major back surgery, her mobilty is really bad (Forgot to mention i own a house all paid for and i pay my bills on it water/electricity/internet in the states while im living here in the phillipines. My bills at home not even being there are higher then my bills living here in ph. Crazy i tell u. Its 400 after homeowners elec water internet while in ph im at 40 for all that while im using it.) Back to my mom she cant afford to help me and my funds are drying up. Also if i was home i would be assisting her. My wife to be cant work, complications with baby and lots of bleeding and bed rest. (I know for expedite its what ever) so i dont want to leave her and even if i do my money almost gone and i can't get work. Disability takes a while to file and the timing for when this back pain and craps happened a few months before i left to be with my fiance. I been to doctors all over and its conditions that i just have to live with. Very uncomfortible and no cure. I had medical marijuana at home, helped me a bit but here in ph thats life in jail so im smashing pain pills that i dislike to take;when its unbearable. Now i can get documentation for any of my health issues not a problem here. So i got my mom issue who needs me at home. I got my wife who needs me. Im a mess. Money is the killer here and my lack of it. I filed with an agency helping me with the i 129f in june. Looks like mid 2024 till she can be in usa due to this 15 month wait plus the. Yadda yadda other stuff. Other then selling my house and letting usa go, what can i do, im basically done for phyiscally, the pain is unreal do i have a case to expedite? I was hoping to get home and sell house to a smaller place once im with her. Well not smaller but a cheaper bigger home just rural. My house since i owned it in 2008 has tripled in value in a now high value area. Can get a home twice the size for a third less if I wasn't picky, but i dont wanna sell it as i need that for declaration of assets. I cant have cash in bank for other reasons, crazy ex wife. Also my mom forcing me to keep the place and i trying not to piss her off as i beed her for sponsor. Part of me wants to say f the house. My new home phillipines, but i dont want to leave family and i will need surgery for my back and meds for my stomach/back. My situation sucks, back pain is the worst and im basically unworkable. The fact im blowing money to pay taxes for a tax record just to get my girly home is crazy but im doing it. Now i hope i didnt just waste cash for nothing. In a way the business is legit cause im managing a stock market account but reality is its my money to begin with and a little bit my moms. And occasionally i fix computers on the side but thats not a guarantee income, though it falls under the business however cant do that as im here in ph. I read its my choice to be overseas i could go back home but again being home is not helping my finacial situation either. Some days i can't get around and my finace takes care of me. Many times ill be walking and a pinched nerve kicks me so hard i lose feeling in my legs and fall. Happens quite often and scares me that ill be paralyzed... anything anyone. Please.