I had all intentions of returning to my home country. No one expected my daughter would have received the interview as quickly as she did, she only filed N400 around the same time i arrived. I did not overstay my B2, she received her interview and passed and we submitted the documents to adjust status before i overstayed the visa. So not sure what point youre trying to make. What does that have to do with this any way? Its my daughters right as a US Citizen to be able to petition her parent. Thats what she was told by the officer, and she even said i was visiting on b2 and she was told i could stay and file the AOS. So dont act like i did anything wrong.
In addition.. i did contact USCIS today. My advice to ALL of you that has provided nothing but criticism, trust your gut feeling with your stuff. USCIS said the notices had been returned. ON TOP OF THAT one of them was my biometrics appointment for the first week of January! So everyone telling me be patient wait 1 week wait 3 weeks... waiting would have me missing my biometrics and going through the hassle of rescheduling.
So for anyone else that has a situation like mine the solution was:
Call USCIS at 800-375-5283. The first thing they asked for was of course the Receipt number or A number. I explained the situation with the mail and he was able to pull up information using my daughters I130 petition for me that we had submitted shortly after her naturalization. He provided me All receipt numbers for my I485/I765/I131 as well as provided the information for my biometrics appointment. He provided directions for pulling the receipt and bio appt notice from my uscis account. He was very helpful and he too explained his frustration with USPS and how this happens very often with letters not being delivered despite having an "In care of" line under the receivers name.
Thank you all for your advice of patience and understanding. I hope this post can help others.