We're just residents of the Netherlands not citizens, we don't have full EU status either.
I know US immigration takes time (I state that it's 1-2 years for an I-130) so this is a bit insensitive considering you probably didn't read that this is an immediate situation, I didn't plan this 6 months/1 year/or 2 years ago...
I looked into this and it's about 20k per person, plus immigration fees?, and you have relocation costs like buying new furniture which is also a pretty penny. Would've been great if I had 50k stored, but alas, I'll still look further into this, thank you!!!