I understand. Perhaps I am using the language loosely. We have been working with an Antiguan attorney, local police and local social services who have determined that the mother is unfit. All are aware that the father's CR1 visa has been approved. The lawyer has explained that there is a very good chance that the father will be granted full custody and permission to remove the child from the country because the mom is unfit. If that is not the case we would seek only a visitor's visa. According to the lawyer, if the mother loses custody, the decision is no longer hers to make.