We waited 90 days to reach out to the Consulate to follow up. When we didn’t get anywhere from that, we reached out to an attorney for WOM. And then it took us 4 weeks to file suit from there (lots of back and forth with the attorney first).
We are still waiting for our visa, and have received a 60-day extension on the first deadline. But, we have been asked for a new medical so we are hopeful that we’ll get out of AP and issued this month.
The order of processing WOMs and motions to dismiss all seem random to me - not necessarily based on how long you’ve waited. Some who have waited less time since DS-5535 get approved no problem, and others who have waited longer have gotten motions to dismiss arguing they haven’t waited long enough. It’s random and makes no sense. Your lawyer will help fight that motion though.
So all that to say, 60 days might be a bit too quick, but we reached out after 90 days and they took on our case.