3 months long distance is hard??? No, it's not hard.
So you made the (bad) decision to AOS whilst visiting on the VWP, and are now moaning about the consequences?
I mean you decided to just stay there, living with your husband, as well as his parents? Like why would you ever decide to do that? Is he 18 or something, that he still lives with his parents?
Stop complaining, and accept the consequences of your own bad decisions and deal with it.