Wednesday night I had a popup from lawfully that there had been a change in my wife and step daughters i130 case. When I opened it it only said the i130 was under review (or opened by an agent something like that). When I checked the other cases I saw that the i485's had been denied at the same time.
We were out of town visiting family for Thanksgiving and had a 10 hour drive back on Saturday. I didn't tell my wife because the USCIS portal said the notification for why would come in the mail and I didn't want her stressed while meeting so many people she had never met before.
Last night we saw that on the system the i130 for both of them has been approved.
She found put on the way back, and this morning I realized there is a copy of the denial notice in the documents on the portal.
The denial notice says that when I replied to an RFE in January that I did not include a new copy of the i485 as requested - the RFE was requesting more info for the i864 and this. It claimed that when I sent in my original i485 there were missing pages.
I know I sent it because I could not believe there were missing pages in the i485 - I went over that thing so many times there's no way the original was missing pages!
But I have no proof that I included it. And how am I to prove if I think they lost it?
We applied for the i130 while in Vietnam in March of 2022, decide to do the AOS while on a trip here to visit when I was offered a job - filed it in October 2022. Got the RFE in December and replied in January.
The only action on the cases otherwise was to get the EAD in July after requesting congressional help to expedite.
Now after a year and a half here, nothing was accomplished. From what I can tell so far we are going to have to refile the AOS, updating all the forms and documents. The other option is for her to go back home and wait for it there, but we have 2 children, our son is dual citizen and our daughter.....I don't know if she could stay here if her mother leaves.
There is no end to this is there? My wife was just finally able to get a drivers license a couple months ago, I don't even know if she gets to keep that.
I know there are other options, the i290 - motion to reopen/reconsider. But all I'm reading is how unless you can prove USCIS made a mistake then there is little chance of it being successful.
If we do resubmit the packet - is there any chance of them approving it sooner since the i130 is approved or are we going to wait another year for anyone to even look at it?