I never suggested for you to lie to immigration, or neither has anyone one of us. Let’s get straight. Canada is not over seas, you have no kids or other arrangements keeping you from not coming more often, because if you were able to get married and enter while covid measure were in full force in Canada, what’s stoping you now? Don’t give them, or her, even grounds to contemplate the visitors visa since you’ll be there often enough, so no need for added layer of suspicion and mistrust, especially at this stage of your marriage and the fact that you haven’t even filed the cr1 petition.And you do not need to discuss your itinerary or your daily and weekly agenda with your inlaws once over there, you are a married couple, no need for chaperoning, and do not stay in the hotel down the street. You are two adults, married adults. Make your own decisions, do not involve the whole village, both of you. And if that doesn’t work, as Boiler previously stated you need a different type of legal help, something not offered here.