With all due respect please don't tell me to relax this is a platform where we are allowed to ask questions and vent correct? You don't know my situation It's been a long 2 and a half years we're in this back and forth confusing process and I am relaxed I'm just frustrated, to say the least. I am very busy with work, school, and my children. I'm human I get frustrated I'm allowed to. My husband and I romance is just fine we're in a great space. So please if you're going to be rude I'll rather that you don't say anything at all......Keep your advice respectfully