Well, we met on FB and I went to visit 7 months after we met online. When he went to his interview we were on the relationship for 1 year and I had gone to visit 3 times, ( however he tested positive for TB and that added 18 months to the end process until he was cured.)
Age gap at the time the K1 was approved, I am 40 years OLDER than my husband.
In total I visited Indonesia 8 times between 2017 and 2020, the K1 was approved in June 2021, I believe in total time I spent about 6 months in my visits. Most were 30 day visits.