There’s a maturity needed to be.married. It’s not like seeing the latest TV in Best Buy and insisting on throwing out the old one so to buy the new one. My wife lost her equally paid job during covid and that put us under immense pressure but the situation brought us closer and not me looking for a new partner. She needed me to be there for her during that low period of her life more than anytime of our marriage.
Do what you need to do to make your marriage financially happy: buy or rent a cheaper home, switch energy suppliers, cut back on unnecessary spending, do whatever. In the long run, when she’s ready to work again you’ll both be glad you did.
Oh yeah, nice touch bringing in an immigration question to what is essentially a relationship issue.