Instead of breaking up, I'd do a plan B. Basits and I's plan B was living in Dubai together. Now we are discussing Mexico, until the process is finished. I don't think IR1 can be refused .... Does anyone on here know of IR1 can be refused? I've been hearing they can only delay it but they can't refuse it. Having a plan B option for your marriage is good tho. Don't divorce just cause of our stupid governments, especially if you two love each other. If you guys need any support, message us on Facebook. Basits best friend is also married to an American and going through the same process and we went on double dates here in Pakistan she is flying here again in two weeks and we will go on double dates again 😂 you are not alone in this horrible journey!!!