I hope I’m not giving the wrong impression about our intentions. Like any mother, my mother-in-law is simply excited to meet her grandchild, especially since this will be her first. I don’t see that as a negative thing at all.
I’ll be having a C-section, and if you’ve experienced one, you know how challenging those first few weeks can be. Just as I wish my own mother could be here to help (unfortunately, she can’t due to health reasons), I’d love to have my mother-in-law’s support during that time. She’s family, and I truly love her as I do my own mother.
I think I may just be seeing this from a different perspective, I’m not trying to bring her over to “work” or act as a caretaker, but rather to share in a meaningful family moment and help in the natural way any loved one would.