I just want to clear some information up, maybe someone can help me with the right path for this situation.
so basically, I’m worried that my stepdaughter might purposely say stuff at the interview phase to prevent both my wife and her getting visas. She has long history of being toxic to everyone but her mom. But not knowing that this is serious and will completely prevent her from coming to US. She might regret it later.
She is a middle school dropout which is not common in China, when I met her mom she was already not going to school. I thought it would have been best to go back(I told my wife I would pay for her private school) since I thought US school would be great for her, I went through it. She hates school and found out I was the advocate for her to go back. Because of this, she dislikes me and has attempted to cause problems at family gathering etc, but rest of extended family knows her too well and nothing came out of it. All of my wife’s family loves me.
My wife won’t leave the country without her daughter because she knows family from both sides does not want to deal with my stepdaughter. So I am worried that if my stepdaughter might cause problems at the interview. Does her interview affect my wife getting visa or just hers? Is it possible for me to file separately and then if say my wife gets everything done and is ready to go, can she wait for my stepdaughters case to come around and leave together? Please help, this is so hard for me to decide. I know it is not common to file separately.