I'm sorry you are going through this. The ban won't be around forever. Trump won't be President forever. And, if the Democrats win in November, they may be able to extract concessions out of him even sooner (but who knows if they'll spend their political capital on the ban). Try to visit each other as much as possible. Prepare for the eventual move to the US. For example, my spouse started working with an architect on our house before even moving here. If you want to have kids, both of you get your fertility checked out, so if you have an issue you can start treatment now. Speaking from experience, you don't want to spend all this time apart, then when you are finally together and ready to build a family, you discover fertility issues. Just a few ideas.