If your wife has not interviewed yet, there's no need to send an AR-11 or I-865 form to USCIS nor the consulate. To update your address, do the following --
Fill out an I-864 form (not I-865) with your new address info. You may need to update your financial info as well. Make sure to sign and date the form properly.
Scan the updated I-864 form and upload to the section for "Additional AOS Supporting Documentation" on CEAC.
Email the I-864 scan to your wife. I recommend you also paper-mail the updated I-864 form to her, so she can bring it to her visa interview.
On the day of your wife's interview, she should request the consulate staff for assistance to update her DS-260 form with your new address info.
When your wife flies in to the US with her spouse visa, she should provide your new address info to the inspecting CBP officer at POE. She should make sure to volunteer the info in case she is not asked.
No need to do steps 1-3 within 30 days of your move. I suggest you wait until your wife gets her interview schedule so your new I-864 will have the most updated financial info at the time. You may as well upload your latest financials documents then, as there's a good chance you will be required to provide your 2023 tax documents by the time of your wife's interview.
If you ever change addresses again after your wife enters the US with her spouse visa, then you will need to submit I-865 to USCIS within 30 days of moving.