If you want your family to be with you in the US asap, the most ideal case is for you to find a US-based job BEFORE you travel to the US, get a formal offer in writing (with target start date of employment in the US), then use that job offer to request for direct consular filing (DCF) at the US embassy in Manila. IF you qualify for DCF based on exceptional circumstances (impending job relocation to the US), you could skip the long wait at USCIS + NVC and jump straight to the consulate stage. If there is any chance at all that you can get yourself a US job offer now, I recommend trying this approach first. The DCF option is only available while you are based in the Philippines. If you move to the US before filing the I-130 petition, you will have to file with USCIS and join the line behind everyone else who filed before you.
By the way, is your child also a US citizen? Does your child have CRBA and US passport?