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Did you pay over $25k on Fed income tax only, or did you pay $25k for Fed income+Social Security+Medicare taxes?
Some simple tax math:
$160,000
-$25,900 standard deduction
=$134,100 taxable:
MFJ Liability: $9,615+$11,121 = $20,736
-$2000 qualifying child credit (1 child)
= $18,736.
The above, if you made $169,999 together:
$20,936 tax owed as MFJ
By my calculation above, you should be getting between $4k to $6k+ refund if filing MFJ and if you payed over $25k in just Fed income tax.
If the $25k was for fed income+ssi+med, then up to $13k was just for ssi+med = $12k in fed income tax withholdings. In this case you would owe $6.7k to $8.9k, depending on the exact amounts.
Also note, the above is assume all income is wage income.