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    belinda63 got a reaction from AKN2 in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Marc_us82 in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from S & P in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from PerditaD in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from trublubu2 in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Cheezees in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Ebunoluwa in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from milimelo in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from caly in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    She can divorce you as easily as you can divorce her. You can't stop a divorce. My divorce was final in December 1998 but we are still in court fighting over things as of this month.
    She can file for divorce and file to ROC with the waiver. If the divorce is not completed by the time she files she can request an extension by showing the filing of the paperwork with the court.
    She could also claim VAWA as you are using her immigration status to blackmail her into agreeing to your terms on the divorce.
    You cannot stop her ROC and you cannot get out of the I-864.
    Stop worrying about her immigration status and get your life together.
    And just because she may be in another country she still has the right to contest the division of the property and ask for spousal support. Don't think getting her out of the US will protect you in the divorce. Or if she stays and is not in status nothing will happen in divorce court, immigration isn't going to show up and arrest her, even if they do she can still contest the divorce from jail.
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    belinda63 reacted to acgmph in I don't want spouse to get 10year GC.. options?   
    Here's what can happen: she gets close to the 90 days from her conditional GC expiring and will ask you to sign the ROC form. You say no. She gets an immigration lawyer that tells her she needs to divorce you. She divorces you. She gets the waiver. You cannot do anything to stop her. Stop thinking of ways to get her. Even if she is not an LPR, but a foreign citizen, she is still allowed to appear in court for the divorce if she so chooses and make your life a living hell... USC or not, LPR or not.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from elmcitymaven in Nigerian visiting USA   
    Another thing to keep in mind is how would you support yourself and a child? You seem to be strapped for cash already so how would you pay for daycare/diapers/etc. Even if you apply for a spousal visa the day you return it takes about a year for him to receive it and even longer if he has AP. Or what if the visa is denied? Then you and the child are here in the US and daddy is in Nigeria?
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    belinda63 reacted to Boiler in Green Card holder pregnancy insurance   
    You are required to have Heath Insurance under Obamacare.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Jacque67 in Removal of condition DENIED   
    Look at this from their point of view. You married him and as soon as you got your green card you left for two years. You didn't return until it was time to remove conditions. Add in the fact that you have left him since the ROC was denied and want a divorce. So from 2010 to now you lived together as man and wife for like two years? You are going to have a really hard time convincing an immigration judge that USCIS erred in their decision. Even with an abuse waiver you still have to prove it was a real marriage and you have failed to do that twice so far.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Scot19000 in Removal of condition DENIED   
    Look at this from their point of view. You married him and as soon as you got your green card you left for two years. You didn't return until it was time to remove conditions. Add in the fact that you have left him since the ROC was denied and want a divorce. So from 2010 to now you lived together as man and wife for like two years? You are going to have a really hard time convincing an immigration judge that USCIS erred in their decision. Even with an abuse waiver you still have to prove it was a real marriage and you have failed to do that twice so far.
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    belinda63 reacted to HFM181818 in Thai wife of US Citizen for 10 years refused entry at airport   
    The collective actions of those who have 'changed their minds' at baggage claim have instant and long term affects on visa applicants around the world...each and every time a CO finds out about one of the AOSs, the bar for approvals will rise....and then we'll hear about how 'unfair' the laws are, how 'mean' the COs are, etc...once again, blame those who have snubbed their noses at our laws and violated the trust given to them rather than others.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from trublubu2 in Will I lose my Temporary Green Card if my US citizen wife divorce me (or withdraw I-130)   
    If you feel she scammed you for money you could file a civil suit.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Garcialove in My parents will immigrate via IR5 but will leave two minors behind, can they bring them somehow? Otherwise they'll be left parentless   
    One parent comes and the other stays behind. The parent who comes petitions the spouse and children.
    Both parents come, one petitions for the children, and one or both apply for a re-entry permit so they can remain with the children while the petition is pending. This will take several months to approve and they will have to be fingerprinted in the US.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Ebunoluwa in Nigerian visiting USA   
    Another thing to keep in mind is how would you support yourself and a child? You seem to be strapped for cash already so how would you pay for daycare/diapers/etc. Even if you apply for a spousal visa the day you return it takes about a year for him to receive it and even longer if he has AP. Or what if the visa is denied? Then you and the child are here in the US and daddy is in Nigeria?
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    belinda63 got a reaction from mallafri76 in My parents will immigrate via IR5 but will leave two minors behind, can they bring them somehow? Otherwise they'll be left parentless   
    One parent comes and the other stays behind. The parent who comes petitions the spouse and children.
    Both parents come, one petitions for the children, and one or both apply for a re-entry permit so they can remain with the children while the petition is pending. This will take several months to approve and they will have to be fingerprinted in the US.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from C-ma'am in Removal of condition DENIED   
    The whole problem is no matter what route you chose to try you will have to prove a bonafide marriage. You have failed to do that twice already. It will be really hard if not impossible to prove it now.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from C-ma'am in Removal of condition DENIED   
    Look at this from their point of view. You married him and as soon as you got your green card you left for two years. You didn't return until it was time to remove conditions. Add in the fact that you have left him since the ROC was denied and want a divorce. So from 2010 to now you lived together as man and wife for like two years? You are going to have a really hard time convincing an immigration judge that USCIS erred in their decision. Even with an abuse waiver you still have to prove it was a real marriage and you have failed to do that twice so far.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from C-ma'am in Removal of condition DENIED   
    I am confused, you got your green card in 2010 or maybe 2011 so you filed to remove conditions in 2012 or 2013? But you were out of the country for years two and three of the marriage so how did you file to remove conditions? And when was your ROC denied? Please give me some guidance here with dates.
    You have multiple issues and a very difficult case to prove. If you can't prove it was a real marriage and USCIS has already made a determination that it wasn't then there is not much you can do.
    You need an attorney.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Hypnos in Derivative Beneficiary Adjustment of Status Process HELP   
    Since your parents married after you turned 18 you do not qualify as a step-child of the USC. Your LPR parent must file a petition for you, I-130, and the wait is about 2 years although it varies.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Jojo92122 in Derivative Beneficiary Adjustment of Status Process HELP   
    Since your parents married after you turned 18 you do not qualify as a step-child of the USC. Your LPR parent must file a petition for you, I-130, and the wait is about 2 years although it varies.
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    belinda63 got a reaction from Boiler in Derivative Beneficiary Adjustment of Status Process HELP   
    Since your parents married after you turned 18 you do not qualify as a step-child of the USC. Your LPR parent must file a petition for you, I-130, and the wait is about 2 years although it varies.
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