
belinda63
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belinda63 got a reaction from EM_Vandaveer in Need help--physical violence
Just reading this got my PTSD acting up. He is "hugging and kissing" you as a way to control you but if the police are called that is exactly what he will tell them. You hit him and bit him for hugging and kissing you. Who do you think the police are going to arrest. My ex would throw me on the floor and bang my head on the floor but tell the police he was just restraining me for my own safety. I was carrying my 1 week old daughter when he shoved me and I fell, almost landing on her. He immediately began yelling "go ahead throw the baby" as a way to cover for his act of violence. If I didn't want to participate in whatever type of sex he wanted he would call me a prude, tell me the light came on when I spread my legs, and just humiliate me.
If you still love him obtain counseling. Otherwise it is time to divorce.
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belinda63 got a reaction from EM_Vandaveer in How to apply?help
It looks like he married the first wife just to obtain a green card. And he was having a relationship with you and a family while obtaining his green card. Then when he had it he divorced wife one and wants to petition the woman he really wants to be with.
TLDR: He married the first wife only for the green card.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Unidentified in Invalid K 1
She (and he) lied to immigration. She is now divorced from her USC husband. Her AOS was denied. Probably not. Since she entered on a K-1 she can only adjust through the person who sponsored her. But since she never should have been granted a K-1 she is in really deep mud.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Penguin_ie in Need help--physical violence
Just reading this got my PTSD acting up. He is "hugging and kissing" you as a way to control you but if the police are called that is exactly what he will tell them. You hit him and bit him for hugging and kissing you. Who do you think the police are going to arrest. My ex would throw me on the floor and bang my head on the floor but tell the police he was just restraining me for my own safety. I was carrying my 1 week old daughter when he shoved me and I fell, almost landing on her. He immediately began yelling "go ahead throw the baby" as a way to cover for his act of violence. If I didn't want to participate in whatever type of sex he wanted he would call me a prude, tell me the light came on when I spread my legs, and just humiliate me.
If you still love him obtain counseling. Otherwise it is time to divorce.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Mellyboo in Need help--physical violence
Just reading this got my PTSD acting up. He is "hugging and kissing" you as a way to control you but if the police are called that is exactly what he will tell them. You hit him and bit him for hugging and kissing you. Who do you think the police are going to arrest. My ex would throw me on the floor and bang my head on the floor but tell the police he was just restraining me for my own safety. I was carrying my 1 week old daughter when he shoved me and I fell, almost landing on her. He immediately began yelling "go ahead throw the baby" as a way to cover for his act of violence. If I didn't want to participate in whatever type of sex he wanted he would call me a prude, tell me the light came on when I spread my legs, and just humiliate me.
If you still love him obtain counseling. Otherwise it is time to divorce.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Merrytooth in How to apply?help
It looks like he married the first wife just to obtain a green card. And he was having a relationship with you and a family while obtaining his green card. Then when he had it he divorced wife one and wants to petition the woman he really wants to be with.
TLDR: He married the first wife only for the green card.
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belinda63 got a reaction from AKN in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Asia in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Ezy_and_Oghene in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from QueenComley in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Cyberfx1024 in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from SunflowerSweet in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Ben&Zian in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Unlockable in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Cathi in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Lemonslice in What should I do about the expedite?
You as the USC can return to the US at any time. You choosing to remain in a foreign country to give birth is just that, a choice.
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belinda63 got a reaction from EM_Vandaveer in Never lived together.
You can report the story as you have given here to the fraud line for USCIS but don't expect anything to happen. If you suspect she will be giving a friends address in El Paso (or elsewhere) for the purpose of obtaining benefits contact the local social services office there and inform them of what you believe. They can ask for proof of her address and visits to determine if she lives there. But again don't expect much to happen.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Ksenia_O in Wife wants to go back to Phil with our baby born in Phil, We're in US now
What you are claiming she has planned to do makes no sense. Sounds more like she is unhappy and you are trying to find a way to force her to stay here.
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belinda63 got a reaction from EM_Vandaveer in 30/60/90
Most attorneys will say whatever they need to for you to give them money. Instead of you doing a simple adjustment of status he made the case sound more complicated and dangerous than it was and cost you lots more money. Which meant more money for him.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Ash.1101 in 30/60/90
Most attorneys will say whatever they need to for you to give them money. Instead of you doing a simple adjustment of status he made the case sound more complicated and dangerous than it was and cost you lots more money. Which meant more money for him.
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belinda63 got a reaction from Hypnos in 30/60/90
Most attorneys will say whatever they need to for you to give them money. Instead of you doing a simple adjustment of status he made the case sound more complicated and dangerous than it was and cost you lots more money. Which meant more money for him.
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belinda63 reacted to Georgia16 in Pregnant and trying to bring my parents! Help !!!
Coming on a tourist visa with the intent to adjust status is visa fraud.
They can visit you and the baby, but help with the childcare can be look at as they are working on a tourist visa.
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belinda63 reacted to LionessDeon in Denied
Please save your money there's nothing an immigration attorney can do.
Please go to the Jamaican portal and read pass threads this has been discussed many many times.
Please view my timeline and my past posts on this subject.
Applying for a different kind of visa is not going to change the situation. The fact remains marijuana is illegal in the United States under federal law.
No one knows the heart break better than myself you simply have to wait out the one yearr ban and redo the medical in a year.
If you enter this topic in the search tool you will see many many post many VJers have gone through this.