I should note, I would also consider doing a CR1 visa instead in this case, too, as the processing times seem to be fairly similar, with added benefits. I am not sure what is more likely to be approved / denied based on my history. I so wish I hadnt filed previously, and that I had followed up, but I honestly didnt expect to consider doing this type of relationship again. Just never know I guess. But any help in who I should contact if anyone, and how to go about it, to make sure my future application if it comes, isnt denied, would be immensely helpful.