We all know this dilemma
We all know the separation is hard
We all know when you are successful , its worth it
when you say met online and see her in October, have you met in person yet?
for high fraud countries it is important to spend as much quality time as possible together
and if marrying in October (1st visit ) can be a red flag
not to discourage u , but if you do , add her to 2025 tax returns following the IRS site for alien spouse getting ITID number as that will help prove marriage is bona fide
the best to u both!!!!