Lots of very good replies here. I wanted to also give some additional input and had follow up questions:
I don't have any ulterior motives. Finding even one woman to marry was hard enough for an introvert like me. I am not sure when I will be ready to marry or meet another woman again as this marriage left me devastated.
All I want right now is for my child to be happy in this young age. Since I am the one making more money, I hope I don't get deported due to some legal twist as that would wreck my child's life. My wife is already in the process of getting another man, if all the signs of her behaviors and makeup purchases on credit cards are to be believed. I moved here on an H1B, which was dual intent.
I-751 currently takes anywhere from 18 to 31 months to get approved. I am sure my divorce will be finalized before then. I could file for a divorce waiver and have my I-751 altered, but I'm not sure if that's needed since I-751 processing is taking so long these days. If my wife does agree to a speedier divorce (i.e. through mediation), I can then file for the waiver asap.
Could thus the I-751 processing take longer if I were to ask for a divorce waiver much before I am certain of my divorce finalization? USCIS certainly likes to put a lot of things on the bottom of the pile due to their workload.
Tha