Went to Shanghai on business 7/06. On a Saturday, a co-worker was taking me out to see some sights, and he told me he had invited a friend, that she spoke English well and wanted to practice. I said something like "yeah whatever", not thinking much of it. Later I found out she wasn't very enthused to be going either, but he coerced her into it. Anyway, when she came walking up for the first time, it was just one of those magic moments, I remember thinking "whoa, this is her?". Not the kind of complication I was looking for in my life, but when it happens, it happens. I asked to see her again that day, and when I am in China, we have been inseperable ever since.