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I followed the process in the attached photo and it worked at first try 😁. The lady on phone said we can still amend 2020 taxes even with different addresses. Only DMV left now. Thank you Tbone 👍🏿👍🏿

Went to car dealership, they said I didn’t need to update my address since my wife still resides at the old address, likewise Allstate auto insurance. I just submitted the AR-11 form online. I will update my address with DMV when I go take my CDL permit test, it should still fall within the 30 days period. SSA.gov says “If you do not receive Social Security benefits, SSI, or Medicare, you do not need to change your address with us.” so that’s that. As for IRS, I can’t seem to find anywhere online to update my address. Sigh 🤦🏿‍♂️

Okay. Thank you. Will do that.

The car is in both of our names so is the auto insurance, do I still need to update my address with car finance and auto insurance??

I was wondering if I have a complete list of who to notify of address change and when. The ones I have written down are USPS, Bank, IRS, DMV, USCIS, car dealership and auto insurance… that’s all. Is there anything else I am missing? Please advise. NB: is it necessary to update my address with dealership and insurance since both of our names are on them and my wife remains at the same address anyways??

Congratulations 🎊🍾

First and foremost, accept my condolences… may your mother’s soul find rest. Also, I am sorry to hear that you’re going through this. I am in Alabama, too, and my wife just left the house like 30mins ago with our car we are both paying for and had me remove my things from it. I have a feeling she’s trying to make life difficult for me by taking my source of income away (I do Walmart Spark delivery). Follow advices from comments and move on with your life. Please do not go to the house to confront her, go with the police to get whatever is left of your things. I will DM you now to see if we can rub minds since our situations are similar. Be strong brother. We will be alright.

Folks, I turned back on the interstate and went back home. I couldn’t do it. After I got home, we talked and shared our thoughts and concerns in a different way than before, so we both agreed to go on a short vacation to get away from all the madness. We’ve got to bring that romance back! 😁 Thank you all for chiming in. I appreciate it.

Over 25 years. But that ain’t no issue for either of us. We will be fine. Update to follow below

I understand. And my green card expires July 2024. Thank you very much.

Thank you. I had no choice but to do because I was boiling really hot inside being talked to like that by wife’s daughter and my wife was sitting right there and said nothing. I have the 2 year green card. I came in last year July.

At a time in November when things were very bad between us and I was barely handing on by a thread, my wife asked me if I was depressed. I told her “baby so you know what you’ve been doing to me is bad and how you’ve been treating is wrong you’d thought I’d be depressed by now?” She did not utter a word after that. In early December, I suggested we go to marriage counseling but she brushed off the idea. I just need to avoid that house tonight to avoid trouble. I will talk to her again about counseling. Sorry for posting in the wrong forum and thanks for your contribution.

Hello VJ’ers, I really can’t go into details but the major point is that things were totally the opposite of everything it was supposed to be. I have gone through a lot in my marriage and I said enough is enough tonight. It is not my wife that is the problem but her grown up children and a particular granddaughter that lives with us. I left the house tonight so I wouldn’t do anything stupid; my wife’s 47yo daughter who lives with us (her 20yo daughter lives with us too and her boyfriend) was there yelling in my face and insulting me and my wife didn’t say anything. My wife’s granddaughter had been rude to me before but I let it go because I love the girl but she did it again tonight via text. I have told my wife my plans of getting my own place and setting it up and would love for her to move in with me and let her daughter and her boyfriend and her granddaughter have her house because I don’t want a divorce. I really am not sure how this will end. But I am sitting here at a Murphy’s gas station thinking of what to do. I left the house to avoid further confrontations which I know might push me to do something stupid. I need your advices as to what to do right now with regards to my immigration status. Are there documents I should be gathering right now while I still can or Idk, just anything I need to do on my part. We just filed out taxes jointly last week, we amended 2021 taxes to married filing jointly but we haven’t mailed it out. We were supposed to amend 2020 taxes today and mail them both together until things went crazy. It appears to me that my wife has chosen her family over me. What do I do?

Go ahead and schedule your interview. Make sure to give enough time between current date and interview date for your medicals. I advice to do the medicals 2 weeks before the interview date. Get your police clearance certificate, too.

Hi VJ family, I need help deciding what to do regarding DS260 question about willful misrepresentation and fraud. I was denied a K1 visa in 2019 due to counterfeit divorce certificate. It was not willful at all as I did not even know said document was fake until the Consulate found it to be and informed us through my then fiancee's congresswoman's office. So my question is, do I select no and give my explanations if/when it comes up during my interview or select yes (would this not mean that I am admitting I did it willfully)?? Thank you. PS: CEAC website keeps taking me back to sign in page when I clicked next from the first page of DS260. is it my connection or is anyone else experiencing this?