Again, I understand everyone is different but I have been swooned by the man as I see all the women are. I’m just saying take time out to understand it’s NOT ABOUT LOVE ENTIRELY for them. American women we want what our culture has portrayed as being a good man. BUT please mam take your head out the clouds for just a moment , ask him tough questions, what are his goals and how do you fit into them once he arrives? Think about what you think you can depend on him now for will that change when he arrives? What is his love language and what is yours? Does he know what yours is? Is he willing to be the same way when he arrives? What do you expect from him? Is he a minimalist and if so how I’ll that play into him meeting any household needs that you expect a man to do? The expectation if not effectively communicated between the two BEFORE he arrives will devastate you. If it wasn’t for me having a relationship with GOD I would divorce. Also, if you are paying for everything when you go travel please understand ! Do it not expecting anything in return because once he is making more money than he has ever made in his life you will see right where you fit in and I PRAY it’s what you expected but just in case it’s not , as the woman you have to submit and compromise if you want your marriage to last. I WANT TO BRING AWARENESS TO AMERICAN WOMEN because our culture have the toughest time adjusting to the headship of our husbands.