I was disenchanted with the guy I was dating and logged onto the dating site I had previously been on (hadn't logged on in *months*). I saw that Graham had viewed my profile so I wrote to him. He responded & told me he had already written to me but the mail expired because I hadn't logged on to collect it. The next day we were on the phone and a few days later he booked a ticket (after having not flown in 20 years). The rest is history! Oh, and we are both huge music lovers. He found me via a search for 'Bunnymen' (both our favorite band). That kinda sealed the deal for me :)