I’m older he’s 29 I’m 39 we have 10 years of friendship and got engaged 5 years ago married 2.5 years ago I was also very hesitant due to the age difference. But after building a very long friendship it turned into more. Now I’m very close with his family we have birthdays together for the kids we have been to visit many many times (more than I can count). And we have a baby together so I don’t think it would be anything to do with the validity of the relationship itself but I could be wrong…
the South Korea situation seems to make more sense now you mention it. Yes he went for asylum and ended up coming back to make a life with me … he didn’t want to come to Morocco but I instigated because s Korea is extremely hard and far for me to travel to and extremely expensive. So yeah he went back and has no problems now so I can see how that would not look great to them 😔