Daphne .

18 minutes ago, nsc said:

 

I am just wondering if the embassy would even look at that insignificant receipt. That's all. 

They very likely will not, but they will wonder why she wants to go to a language school in the US to improve her English. There are many other (online) resources available for that. 
 

An F1 is a non-immigrant visa, so the interviewing officer will want to see evidence that she will actually leave the US after her studies, so they will be interested to see how strong her ties to her home country are. What will prevent her from trying to adjust her status once in the US? 

No, as she is not in the US anymore, she is not eligible for an adjustment of status anymore. She cannot use her tourist visa with the intent to adjust status, she needs to go through consular processing. 

Congratulations!!! 

12 hours ago, Hughughug333 said:

Yes and at the time we determined that it would be worth it since we have done three months long distance which was very hard 

Okay, so your husband is aware and okay with you not being able to work, so no need to feel guilty about that. 
 

Are you both very young? 3 Months long distance really is not a lot and I hope that you’ve been in a relationship together a lot longer than that? 

5 hours ago, Hughughug333 said:

I just feel immense guilt over not being able to contribute while he goes out to work 12 hour shifts earning money to support us when all I can do is stay home doing nothing productive, it just goes against my values

Did you and your husband discuss this prior to choosing to adjust status from your Esta? 

On 7/21/2024 at 6:10 PM, farea said:

there is no discussion of dowry when it comes to divorce a wife in islam.. just say 03 times Divorce and that's all. 

And all in the name of ‘culture’… This should not be legal… 

Yes, this is usually what happens and also the reason why K3’s don’t get issued a lot. 

Just to add to the other advice already given: you aren’t required to buy a oneway ticket. Roundtrip tickets are usually cheaper so I would look into that if I were you.

Mine took 120 days, but my journey was a “Murphy’s Law” type of situation anyway.. 

1 hour ago, aa1979 said:

 

 

Yes, let's see if anyone else here supports the K1 route? 

The K1 has the expensive adjustment of status process that comes with it and he won’t be able to work for a while, so it’s not an ideal choice. Why do you think they should do the K1? 
 

Before they start anything, they should at least have some more (at least 1 more) visits in I think

1 hour ago, oldpunk said:

We've known each other for close of 20 years, and I was out of status when we did. I'm no saint, I agree. 

 

I should have been more specific. You have known each other for 20 years, how many years of those 20 years were you in a romantic relationship then? 
 

You were out of status, so a marriage with a USC was a way to fix that and in that short period of time you already had an affair. You only just received your greencard and now want a divorce. From an outsider perspective these factors are already a little sketchy, and she might have even more info, so again: she might have good grounds to want to report you. Even if she does, it might not make a difference for your I-751 with a divorce waiver though. 

Site is having issues. I saw posts on Reddit from people with the same issue. 

4 minutes ago, Coldlight said:

yes you right. what should i do now ? thank you for reply

With so much time that passed by, you need to start the process over.

22 minutes ago, Coldlight said:

his all document still in embassy . he never took back. is he need to send letter to embassy  ? . how do he get back documents .or do  have to ask embassy . I filled case as his wife as US citizen then we will file all over again 

None of these documents will be up to date anymore anyways (I assume you are referring to police certificates, affidavits of support, etc. 

It looks like he doesn’t want to move to the US (anymore) Have you been traveling to see him in the last 12 years? 
 

Your post is a little confusing, are you the one living in the US? 

6 minutes ago, Jm1999 said:

True, although she’s not particularly interested in fields like digital marketing, computer programming , cybersecurity etc 

Companies don’t only outsource jobs in those fields. I work in Staffing and plenty of companies also outsource basic admin jobs. Order processing, quotes, etc. 
 

Part of me thinks that she is saying these things to you to convince you that she is not using you for a greencard. The fact that she has many US Citizen (and citizens of other countries that she is interested in) in her phone speaks volumes of course..

You mention that she told you that she only wants to be able to work in the US, but live with you in her home country. Technically she can already do that, there are plenty of US companies that have outsourced work to foreign remote workers. 

16 minutes ago, ilikepotatoes said:

Thank you so much for your reply! What happens if they don’t send the extension letter in time, though? How does he handle that with his employment? 

Nothing to handle with his employment, he doesn’t have to update anything (unless he is changing employers, that might get a little tricky with the I-9). 

Yes, that will be fine. He won’t lose his status or anything. 

Yes, that’s perfectly normal.