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  1. Daphne .
    Okay, so your husband is aware and okay with you not being able to work, so no need to feel guilty about that. Are you both very young? 3 Months long distance really is not a lot and I hope that you’ve been in a relationship together a lot longer than that?
  2. Daphne .
    Did you and your husband discuss this prior to choosing to adjust status from your Esta?
  3. Daphne .
    The adjustment of status process is not easy. This is why never even considered a K1 or adjusting status from a non-immigrant visa. I wouldn’t be able to cope with losing my independence for how ever long it takes. Good luck!
  4. Daphne .
    A child doesn’t necessarily prove an existing or bonafide relationship. Plenty of single parents and children born out of one night stands.
  5. Daphne .
    And all in the name of ‘culture’… This should not be legal…
  6. Daphne .
    Yes, this is usually what happens and also the reason why K3’s don’t get issued a lot.
  7. Daphne .
    I don’t think that’s a fair statement to make.. If he wants to have multiple wives he can stay in a country where this is ‘okay’. If I were to move to a muslim country for example I am expected to comply with the local customs as well, this CANNOT be a one way street…
  8. Daphne .
    Just to add to the other advice already given: you aren’t required to buy a oneway ticket. Roundtrip tickets are usually cheaper so I would look into that if I were you.
  9. Daphne .
    Fortunately, this ‘cultural’ thing doesn’t fly in the US. The 2nd marriage is not legal in the eyes of the US anyway because bigamy is not legal. Your husband can file for the first wife (which is you, correct?) If he wants to continue to have multiple wives, maybe the US isn’t the place for him?
  10. Daphne .
    Mine took 120 days, but my journey was a “Murphy’s Law” type of situation anyway..
  11. Daphne .
    The K1 has the expensive adjustment of status process that comes with it and he won’t be able to work for a while, so it’s not an ideal choice. Why do you think they should do the K1? Before they start anything, they should at least have some more (at least 1 more) visits in I think
  12. Daphne .
    I should have been more specific. You have known each other for 20 years, how many years of those 20 years were you in a romantic relationship then? You were out of status, so a marriage with a USC was a way to fix that and in that short period of time you already had an affair. You only just received your greencard and now want a divorce. From an outsider perspective these factors are already a little sketchy, and she might have even more info, so again: she might have good grounds to want to report you. Even if she does, it might not make a difference for your I-751 with a divorce waiver though.
  13. Daphne .
    How long before you married did you know your spouse? And what was your immigration status in the US before you got married? I don’t think it’s fair to say they got ‘nuclear’ on you, because the totality of the circumstances (including the affair) could 100% be signs that they were right to feel that way..
  14. Daphne .
    Site is having issues. I saw posts on Reddit from people with the same issue.
  15. Daphne .
    With so much time that passed by, you need to start the process over.
  16. Daphne .
    None of these documents will be up to date anymore anyways (I assume you are referring to police certificates, affidavits of support, etc.
  17. Daphne .
    It looks like he doesn’t want to move to the US (anymore) Have you been traveling to see him in the last 12 years? Your post is a little confusing, are you the one living in the US?
  18. Daphne .
    Companies don’t only outsource jobs in those fields. I work in Staffing and plenty of companies also outsource basic admin jobs. Order processing, quotes, etc. Part of me thinks that she is saying these things to you to convince you that she is not using you for a greencard. The fact that she has many US Citizen (and citizens of other countries that she is interested in) in her phone speaks volumes of course..
  19. Daphne .
    You mention that she told you that she only wants to be able to work in the US, but live with you in her home country. Technically she can already do that, there are plenty of US companies that have outsourced work to foreign remote workers.
  20. Daphne .
    Nothing to handle with his employment, he doesn’t have to update anything (unless he is changing employers, that might get a little tricky with the I-9).
  21. Daphne .
    Yes, that will be fine. He won’t lose his status or anything.
  22. Daphne .
    Yes, that’s perfectly normal.
  23. Daphne .
    Don’t pay attention to these estimates, they are highly unreliable.
  24. Daphne .
    People have to meet in person after an online marriage, that is required by USCIS. They don’t get married twice, it’s just to meet the requirements from USCIS.
  25. Daphne .
    Do not marry somebody if you don’t know or trust them enough, period. Maybe you 2 need to give this more time. And to answer your question, once you marry, you are married. You cannot marry again, this marriage will also count in the US.
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