Daphne .

This doesn’t sound like a DIY case since you are the guardian AND the beneficiary and the US Citizen petitioner is mentally incompetent, very slippery slope. 

It doesn’t have to be just the 2 of you. Pictures with friends and/or family are great too. 

3 hours ago, Pink salt said:

Thank you so much for your advise I want to update that my wife visit attorney office last week in indiana according to her attorney is very capable and 100% percent success rate  she (attorney) told her she will talk to me next week but in first meeting with my wife attorney told it easy it been 10 years of marriage she asked her why you not  visit each other's and she say you put each other's on financial documents insurance,  bank account. But I will have meeting with attorney on zoom so then I probably ask question which you guys really help me ,, one thing I want to tell you in 2015 I got letter from embassy like 221g page asking me submitted w2 certificate and tax returned which I failed to submitted on time . Thank you so much for advise and help 

That lawyer sounds very shady… Sure, you have been married for 10 years but haven’t seen each other at all. How often do you communicate with each other? 
 

Joint finances are not required for consular processing btw. 

1 hour ago, Pink salt said:

Thank for advidw my wife told me other option we can go for divorce she will be here for visit me for enough family and personal pics and evidence and apply for k1 visa it will really work or it happens 

Why would you do that? 
 

Also, just doing 1 visit again and creating evidence from that 1 trip alone is not going to make a strong case. 
 

Start spending more time together, or actually get to know each other and file after that. Apart from not seeing each other for 10 years, did you have regular communication? Phone calls, video calls, texts? 

24 minutes ago, Pink salt said:

So what we do my wife went to attorney she is competent in indiana  she told her it easy been married q0 years i am so worried have to restart or go for k1  

Only being married for 10 years doesn’t prove anything. You’ve only seen each other once, this wouldn’t be considered a bonafide marriage. 
 

The K1 doesn’t apply. 

You won’t be performing any work

 so you are fine. 

10 hours ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Married for 4 months ,

No financially support from Spouse.

Does not live together. I have no idea where he lives.

Tried going to the place where he stated he lives, he told currently he is not there and did not allow me to come

comes to meet me once a while and we live in a motel (I keep quiet as I am in a remarriage, have a child from my previous marriage with me.)

AOS pending, spouse not cooperating.

I entered in good faith, now I am having sleepless nights.

please help. I am tired, worried.

This doesn’t sound like a bonafide marriage. What is your definition of a bonafide marriage? 
 

For your and your child’s sake, leave the US so you’re not in this vulnerable situation anymore and divorce your husband. Take control. 

What is the reason that your spouse is not cooperating? Is this (still) a bonafide marriage? 

1 hour ago, csh2020 said:

I'm not sure how much she knows about the immigration process. She was saying that she would like to go to her home country and if we marry for me to go with her there. During our first conversation, however, she plainly said that she isn't looking for papers but for a companion who will be her life partner. I'm not sure because we are still in a vetting process. I'm not going to be blinded by love like a lot of people are. I'm definitely not desperate because I do have plenty of options. I just like this lady a whole lot but I still need to continue getting to know her and, yes, my radar is on full force. 

Of course she’s going to tell you all the right things like not being in it for the papers or moving back to her home country. She’s in the US now and for a reason, she’s not going to go back to Honduras, she hopes that by saying all those things you will bite. The chances of her finding the 55 year old love of her life in Honduras are non-existent. 

2 minutes ago, ros4u said:

How long did it took you to get work permit? Yes, that’s the main thing for us. Work 

I didn’t do the adjustment of status for this exact reason. I got married during one of my visits (also on Esta), left after my visit and we started the CR1 spousal visa process. I was able to continue to visit while that was processing, I had short 2-week visits every 3-4 months and never had issues. Once I completed the entire visa process from my home country I moved to the US and started my job 2 weeks later. No gap in my resume, no stress about work. 

14 hours ago, ros4u said:

Yes, he does have a job and a house. How does it help us in our car? Thank you 

 

If he has a settled life in the UK, it might get very tough for him during the adjustment of status process. He will be stuck without being able to work, leave the US and drive in some states. The adjustment of status process always sounds like a great idea until it doesn’t. I would really rethink this plan and think with your heads instead of your hearts, make a sensible decision. 

Could she need it to start the divorce proceedings? How long did you actually live together after you arrived in the US? 

You need to apply for a spousal visa. 

1 hour ago, smilingstone said:

 

So what's stopping you from trying to visit the US now? If you both want to pursue the K1, you will need to meet. There's no avoiding it. Travel doesn't seem realistic for him now at this point so the ball is in your court. 

OP probably doesn’t have a tourist visa and will have a tough time getting one.

You use the I-129f form and check the box at question 4.b. 
 

But as noted by other members, it is not likely that it will get issued but it might nudge the I-130

Look at the bottom of the physical receipt notice, it is mentioned there. 

You don’t HAVE to add DL, it is just a form of evidence that you could use to prove living at the same address. Since you haven’t lived at the same address for the last year, make sure to explain carefully why. 
 

What is the plan for the long term though? Is that job permanent or temporary? 

3 hours ago, westjj said:

what is that mean about work restrictions? about travel is about she can not go travel to another country? 

Not until she has authorization, so either a greencard or approved work and travel authorization. This is why doing an adjustment of status always sounds great until it doesn’t. 

She’s only visiting so she would be back in SA before her tourist visa expires, right?