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He is 35! 

He used his parents as a co-sponsor.

The only reason I would stay, is because I'm in the exact predicament here as I am if I go home. E.g have to find somewhere to live, can't drive, start from scratch again etc. 

But atleast home is more familiar, that's a huge reason to go back. I understand how things work more at home. 

Nope, I don't think he will change. I've already spoken to him multiple times and he just says sorry you're bored and goes back to what he's doing. He knows me well, I'm his wife, he knows I'll pack up and leave. I'm strong-willed.  

1 hour ago, Chris Duffy said:

Are you by a chance a Registered Nurse from the Philippines?

 

I have known a few guys including some of my friends who married RN from there for the financial reward

No, I'm not a nurse and I'm from France 

11 hours ago, TM92 said:

If you are dead set on this, then you will have to divorce sooner or later (in order to completely end it); I'll address it later in this post. You can leave and then officially abandon (Form I-407) your LPR status at the USCIS Rome office (they have jurisdiction for France): https://www.uscis.gov/about-us/find-uscis-office/international-offices/italy-uscis-rome-field-office Then you can do an international divorce. Another option is to seperate from your husband and relocate within the US. Then you can also divorce. After divorce is finalized, you can apply for Removal of Conditions (if applicable): https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/divorce-your-conditional-residence-status-how-file-divorce-waiver-with-form-i-751.html The other option is to reconcile/talk with your husband, as another user suggested.

So I could possibly stay, despite the fact that we would be seperated? 

Thank for your replies. Yes I have my mind made up I am leaving. I know he just brought me here so i could support him financially. It just sucks. But, it is what it is! 

Sorry, I didn't finish that message off. What I meant to say is, i'm going home so what do I need to do? Do I just leave the country or do I need to contact immigration and hand my greencard back. I don't need it.

I moved here only a couple of months ago to live with my USC husband. So I am now a permanent resident/green card holder. 

I'm really unhappy here. I'm not homesick, i hate my home, but all I want is to go back home. I dont really want to get into the specifics of it because this is not a relationship guidance site, but my husband has not made me feel welcome at all. He leaves me in the house all day alone whilst he sleeps. He doesnt work. He games all night. Its just not what I envisioned my life to be. He obviously brought me here to support him financially.