Good afternoon everyone.
I would like some advice regarding a very delicate situation that's happening to me and that apparently happened to some other people.
I filed for "Removal of conditions" on my 2 year Green Card back in October 2022. I filed for a waiver, having been separated from my husband since 5 months prior and in the process of completing a "Dissolution of Marriage", aka "No-fault Divorce". Unfortunately, due to various circumstances (eg. papers getting sent back from Court for corrections like 5-6 times, "ex" husband refusing to cooperate up until a couple of months ago, etc.) the RFE letter came in the mail last December and to this day we have yet not finalized our divorce. My deadline to submit the final divorce decree is March the 14th and I doubt we will have a court date before then. We are currently waiting for a hearing date and in the documents we submitted to Court, we stated that we wanted the final hearing to be the final date of our marriage, so if I understood correctly, our divorce would legally end that same day and we would have our decree?
Considering a miracle is definitely not going to happen, I have a few questions that I couldn't really find an answer to on other posts:
1. What is going to happen if I do not respond to the letter? It is specified they do not allow for extensions, so that is not a viable option. Can I still respond, explaining the circumstances and ask for them to wait? Should I respond even without the decree on hand or not do it at all cause it would be pointless, since I don't have what they need?
2. Will my petition be automatically denied? How does it work? Will I get a "Notice to Appear" in front of an immigration judge and hope to have my decree by then? How long will it take for them to send me this NTA after the RFE deadline has passed or between the denial notice and removal proceedings taking place?
3. Will they ask me to just re-file the petition, including the divorce decree this time or just deny it + NTA, cause I don't meet the criteria for the waiver anymore?
4. What happens to my PR status? Will I still be able to work? Will I still be able to travel? I have a wedding to attend to in June so I will need to fly domestically to another State, but will my Green Card still be valid? I have gotten a 48 months extention letter, so as long as I carry it along with my GC, it extends its validity until October 2024, but if they send me to removal proceedings will that void both my permission to work and travel? My passport is expired, I can't use that as a backup method.
I am at a loss. I don't know what to do and frankly I'm quite desperate. I'm afraid of losing everything I worked for for the past 4 years. I have a beautiful daughter with my "ex" husband that we effectively co-parent, I have a good job that is allowing me to go to college for free, I have my whole life here and this is causing me major distres cause I don't know what to expect nor what I can do to save myself from this.
My hope is that by the time they even reopen my file to look at it, I will have my divorce decree and hopefully I will able to get away with the missed RFE deadline, but I know that's just wishful thinking, hence why I'm asking for advice.
Thank you all in advance, from the bottom of my heart.