s/negative/realistic/
s/demoralizing/informative/
and you have it correct.
If I had $10 for every time I’ve read here or on Reddit that a tier 1 falsely told customers their interviews were waived, I’d have enough for free cappuccinos at Star Bucks twice or more a week; Grande of course.
A handful of times it’s been true. Just like broken clocks are correct twice a day.
False hope is worse than realism.
Trust us: we all want your case to be approved quickly. Aside from concern for a fellow human, there is an ulterior motive:
The faster your case and other cases are approved, the faster our cases get approved.
Bluntly our cases are in your way, and your case is in our way.
So when the time comes where there is something you can do to accelerate your case, you better believe we will advise you what to do to win and we will want you to do it fast.
When you do get your green card please don’t lock it in your car unattended. The I-90 you will file after your card is stolen will just slow our cases down.
Best wishes. I am out.