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You don't have a country flag showing or a timeline. What Country did you interview in and if in Canada are you a natural born Canadian? This makes a difference. If this is any other country you interviewed in then you are in the wrong forum. There has been many over the 1 yr mark. It's a sad thing really. I hope yours is close to the end.

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Ah yes those are wonderful ages The 8 yr old I can see having some issues sharing you. Of course now that the newness has worn off she wants life as it was. You're going to have to go the extra mile with the youngest. I know you're spread thin as it is but you will find a way. It seems pretty common with some from the PI to have more issues with children from a previous marriage then others. I'm hate the Ms First name bull as I do not see it as a respect thing. Its a power/control thing. Respect is earned it is not a given. That is another difference between me and some of these southerners. I'm in Arkansas and boy oh boy the culture shock. Do they call all of your friends by Ms/Mr Name? If so then no big deal but if it is just your fiancé and just now then ya that's another wedge. My four have always called their step dad by his first name. It's not a lack of respect it is his name. They also use all my friends first names. Again if this is not new in your life then no big deal, if it is then ya another wedge. Do you expect them to call her Mrs first name once you're married? I have never seen a family where the step mom goes by Ms/Mrs that is just weird. I will not touch what the culture of the PI is as I have no clue. But from the little bit here and there I read I call bull of kids there being more respectful. Your fiancé has already shown her lack of respect with her temper tantrums to get her way. So how would kids being raised to act like that be better behaved then US kids. Ok ya I guess I did touch the culture thing. Backing off now 😛 It's good you took your time with introducing the kids, you did good there. I was the same way. They just need time, it's just been such a short time for them it will work out. Just make that extra effort to include everyone. We were lucky here that they had a $1 theater. We went often was a great way to spoil the kids (we barely went to movies previously) and not spend a ton of money. They will all come together with time, the youngest needs to feel secure she is not losing you. Go out of your way, to make sure she knows, but at the same time don't make your fiancé feel like a third wheel. It is hard and you will make mistakes but just keep trying and you can get through it. I agree it is most likely your fiancé's reactions that trigger your youngest to feel insecure. Plenty of hugs and love you to her will help too.