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It's telling you exactly what was said above. She needs to either provide them with evidence that it is beyond her control that she cannot enter the US. Basically life or death situations or you have to start the entire process again.

Ours have not messed with the tree too much. SAdly the lights around my so called fireplace have been chewed. One if the kitties must be trying to recreate National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation.

Gift card scam is old, it came about after western union and money order scams became too well known about. Bank tellers would warn their customers not to send money to strangers. I'm totally guessing here but I think the gift cards are in turn sold for cash since US gift cards the store kind cannot be used outside the US. I bet they are asking for the kids that are visa only, not store or restaurant kind. We actually get gift cards all the time for the inlaws.

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Yay congratulations! For clarity, you don't get the GC until after you enter the US with your visa.

It is weird. They don't usually ask for a new medical during AP until AP is over.

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Scammers suck. I hope there is a special place down below for them.

Also report it to Tom Selleck himself. Should be a PR person monitoring his social media and they would probably shut him down.

I think you can report him. YOu can also look him up on your FB or post the FB link here and everyone who comes across his account can report him to FB too. I thought a saw something about how to protect seniors from these guys somewhere. I'll try to find it.

You can report him to CBP and The US embassy that issued his tourist visa. Not sure they will do anything, but it is good to do anyway. Since it is a voicemail, contacting the police over there may work if they listen to the VM. Mot sure how you can submit it to CBP or the Embassy. Maybe contacting the nearest airport to meet someone so they can hear it themselves might work.

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When they ask for a new medical they are usually ready to issue the visa. You should have contacted them months ago. now your medical is expired and you will once again need another medical. Contact them again.

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This time of the year the scammers are in full force. They know the older generation especially are good targets.

It's taking about that long to just get the receipt.

Do not risk it. If during his entry the officials catch wind of it he can be denied entry. You yourself are calling it a traditional wedding ceremony. If anyone posts about it on social media and you know someone will. It's all game over. Don't take the risk. Go back later to do that and then you can enjoy it without worry.

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There have been a many threads over the years. These are my thoughts and what I've read on here over the years. First your fiance was supposed to be sure before he uprooted and moved you to the US. He even made a statement of just that. It is always possible that when together full time that reality sets in and that is fine and dandy but you don't get to toy with someone life like that. You get honest with them and end the relationship and let them go home. You've been here a month and he already has changed his mind. Sure he says he doesn't want to break up but not ready to marry. It's not a try before yo buy visa he knew this full well. He's already telling you that he doesn't think he can make-up his mind in 50 days. Well too bad buddy he had nearly 2 years to make-up his mind and now all of a sudden he doesn't know. I call baloney he knew full well long before you came and was too chicken to tell you. You asked about getting married in 6 months. Does he expect you to stay in the US without any type of status and hoping he will marry you one day? While you are waiting for him you put yourself at risk for losing ESTA, getting a ban and even deportation. These are all real possibilities that can happen to you, not him but you. He has no worries at all, he doesn't even have to support you and can even toss you out to the road with no repercussions. The risk for you is too great, pack up and go home long before your 90 days are up. If you have to convince him it is not worth it. If you decide not to give up on this relationship, go home and really really work on your relationship with him. He is the one who needs to step up not you. Let him prove to you he is ready, but make sure he isn't doing it because you are pushing him. As for others stories like this, you can find many on here. The USC changes his mind, something is not ready, too much work, and many other excuses. Sometimes they do get married like day 95 then no big deal life moves forward, but the majority of those couples, the USC doesn't start off saying they don't want to get married. Something out of their control or an emergency. Now this is truly the worst of the worse that I have seen on here. USC convinces the foreign fiance to stay, while draining the fiance's savings dry, boots fiance to the road after, fiance now has a ban for overstaying. the abuse starts (no i'm not saying this is going to happen to you) without marriage the fiance also has no case for VAWA so they stay until they can't take it anymore or stays illegal always worried. If they leave they have incurred a ban. plays house making babies but never marry, kicks the other parent out, ugly custody battle begins, most are not lucky enough to leave with their child(ren) and then can't get back to the US to visit. Thanks to overstaying the 90 days. At the whims of the USC to talk,video chat with their child(ren). I'm also going to guess you have your own doubts about him moving forward to marry or you would not have been on here asking others their thoughts. Please follow your gut, it never lies. I also want to add you cannot come back later on with ESTA or a visitor visa to get married once you leave with the intent to adjust it doesn't work like that. He will have to start all over again with the spousal visa,

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It is super scary having BP that high. Yes hormones and blood calcium levels. There's more too all can be causes to HBP, so always good to check with them. Sadly it won't be fast enough to get your mom on track today.

I'm so sorry Tbone, that is a lot going on. I really hope they figure out your mom's BP and soon. Has she ever seen an endocrinologist? There may be other hormones and such that is causing the issue. Might be worth a shot. Hopefully Mini-B will not repeat that.