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If she has her GC not much more you can do. If not follow the advice Crazy Cat posted above. Good news is that she works, not likely to get anything from the affidavit of support. I would move on, if you try to go after the money she made while married (yes some might try) it may backfire on you. Unless she racked up bill that should have been part of the divorce. Let her go and get that divorced finished.

Yes you can enter by land. Are you importing the car? If so make sure you have everything for that set up already. Check out the other car import threads for more information.

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I'm so sorry it went that far. I truly hope you can save your position with the church. You did fall for her and truly loved her. Yes you put everything on the line, but hopefully they will understand that you were 100% into this and she fooled you all. I will keep my fingers crossed they will understand. If not I pray you find a better church to take you one with less judgement.

Are you 100% sure you will get booted for this?

Personally I would tell them I am withdrawing due to false pretense of (name). That the marriage will be dissolved. Then add the FB user name even if it is an old account. She could still be posting on it with the privacy settings to keep you from seeing anything new. Her New FB name and send a print of that other FB page. Then I would wash my hands of her. You need to remember she did this to your daughter as well. She needs to be protected also. I would also go to your church sooner the better, so they can be there to help you through this.

Now member's who are experience with Thailand will be able to give you the proper advice. You can also pop over to the regional forum to see what other member's has shared there.

Yes ask about annulment it will not hurt. Giving evidence that is true is not being vengeful. You were used and supplying evidence will only help protect you. If USCIS decides to look into it that is totally up to them. You are just providing the truth. I would also provide the lawyer you talk to this also. Make sure you give that lawyer all the nitty gritty details. This again is to protect you. So messed up leaving the house, and soon her coaches will tell her that. Get into a lawyer asap. Do not ever be alone with her at this point.

You will not get the same advice for Canada, the Philippines, the UK and certainly not the MENA countries. A lot will be determine on what country your spouse is from?

Since you asked about protecting other USC's from her. I would copy print off the FB page that you found. Also include her user name for FB. From the little bit you shared with us and the little bit of my reading for annulment. I think you have a case, so definitely ask about it too.

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It is the Consulate that will need the letter or custody order. That is way too much. He doesn't need to give up his parental rights. Plus that is only something that can be done in a court. All you need is a letter of consent to move the child to the US. Father's name consents to child's name to move permanently to the USA. Just be aware that even if he consents to the move, he will still have rights to his child. You will not be able to change this except in the child's home country.

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We risked it. Which wasn't the best idea being that I'm asthmatic and had 4 kids 3 boys which was well a risk just in them 🤣

Even with visa in hand the risk is still there. Some cranky person in your life can report the "wedding" to the consulate. The CO could also be looking at social media and see something themselves and ask for the return of the passport to cancel it. At the POE, if you misspeak and say anything about a husband/wife they will turn you around. They have been know to try to trip ppl up to see what they would say. For example I was asked if the ppl with me was my husband. I said well we're not married yet and that was his mom. They look to see if you would just answer with an automatic Yes. Then at AOS you start submitting evidence. They already have all your social media info and in your Case you have 50 ppl attending, taking pictures, posting on about 50+ social media sites. These posts will show clearly a wedding that was prior to your entry. Kiss your fiance good by as now your K1 was invalid at time of entry. Is this dramatic maybe, but this stuff does happen. Heck of of our very own members went to her brother's wedding and was drilled about it. So how much of a risk do you want to take? Have a huge going away party, but no wedding attire, no formal attire of any kind.

Oh and stop listing to your heart. She can use it against you. Listen to your gut and your head.

Way too many red flags and you know this or you would not be posting. This is how I am seeing it. She came in and applied for asylum. She is well aware that she has a slim chance of being successful of it being granted. She married you, stalled as long as she could to keep stringing you along to stay out of the home (not really being married because her church said so). I would bet money she has someone coaching her. She has outright told you she is in it for the GC. She's not doing this for the kids and church. Tells you to go find someone else because she is in love with her (probably husband and child's father) in her home country. Once she gets that green card she is going to bounce and then bring him over. Please pull the AOS now and talk to a lawyer.

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My advice is to ignore IC. Block and move on.

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TBone, we are rooting for you to find the perfect match. She is out there and you will have to weed through the scammers, but she is out there. Don't settle, life is too short to waste your time on fools.

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