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Ontarkie

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  1. Oh no that is the worst. Hope you feel better soon.
  2. I'm glad she was served. Of course you still love her. You would not have married someone you didn't love. It will take time, let yourself grieve the life you thought you were building. Protect yourself and your daughter. Go ahead and block her number and social media accounts. She could unblock you to mess with you more. Big hugs and I'll continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
  3. Good Luck, sending lots of prayers and positive thoughts and vibes your way.
  4. ~~Zombie thread locked to further replies. Please start your own thread if you have questions about your own case.~~
  5. ~~Moved to US Citizenship General Discussion, form General Immigration Discussion.~~
  6. How long will they need to be gone back home to finish things up? If it is not too long they won't need a reentry permit.
  7. Dang Tbone you need to find a better way to find a women. What ever dating site you're using sucks. @mrmvkjts Hmm lets see if I can recap some We'll start with Tbone the poor guy as you can tell is in search of a new lady. The Mrs left and is engaged to someone else, they do really good with co-parenting Mini-B and they deserve a 👍 for that. Mini-B just a recent birthday dang they grow up so fast. T-Bone is still using Pmath so you didn't miss much there. Estate and garage sales are still his thing. Dave has a little one, which is not so little now. Ban Hammer has been more active in this thread lately, which is nice. Poor guy must not have a life either Neonred is doing good going form Home to Vaca home and dentist things I still have Chickens, no more kids the Jedi just turned 11 on the first. The Tornado is not so much a Tornado lately, she's growing up. My second oldest got married and moved from Texas to Pennsylvania and they are about to have their first baby. A little girl who I have already bought way too much for and probably should stop. Now my memory sucks and I know I m missed someone and a lot of things but that should help
  8. So time to buck up and tell your wife and get on that plane. You can divorce in the UK and it will be recognized even in California. Do your self a favour and go home. You've already given yourself a 3 yr ban don't make it 10yrs.
  9. ~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, form AOS from Work, Student and Tourist Visas - As similar topics are discussed here.~~
  10. ~~Thread moved to Moving Here and Your New Life, from Off Topic~~ Mod hat off You're in a tight spot for sure. Without an EAD she cannot get a SSN. K2's are not working authorized so they cannot get SSN without the EAD. Without the SSN she is going to have a tough time getting a state ID. You might have to bite the bullet and pay for the EAD.
  11. Yes you can move it on your own. Bring a copy of her GC or a copy of her visa. For the car you will need to check out the car import threads. You might be allowed to take the car in and import later.
  12. ~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, form General Immigration Discussion - As the Topic has a VAWA aspect to the question and is better suited here.~~
  13. ~~Moved to Moving Here and Your New Life in America, form AOS Family K1/K3 P&P- as the topic of health insurance is discussed here.~~
  14. ~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, form ROC- As similar topics are discussed here.~~
  15. ~~Zombie thread locked to further replies. Please start your own thread if you have questions about your case.~~
  16. ~~Moved to the PI regional forum, from DCF~~
  17. I started planning an outdoor wedding before our visas were approved. I bought my dress in Canada, we planned where we would get married. We picked the Old Mill since it is Arkansas and yes a big tourist and wedding destination. But it was new to me and exactly what we wanted. When we finally made the move we picked the place to order the food and cake. Grabbed a kit at Walmart to print our own invites. The hardest part was the JP, I had to call a few. Then we all gathered at the house for food, music and booze
  18. Does your fiancé work in Ireland with a company willing to transfer him to the US or a Job Offer in the US? If so this would open another option with the spousal visa called DCF. It is only available under certain circumstances, like the move of a USC to the US for work.
  19. ~~Thread moved to General Immigration Discussion, from AOS Family K1/K3 P&P- the OP is past the AOS stage.~~
  20. You're welcome, I was worried I was too harsh. It sucks I know but you did do the right thing. If she is two hours away and needs to be seen by a doctor. She needed to go to the nearest place. It was good to send her a copy of the insurance card. She won't be able to use that against you. Shutting off your heart is the hardest thing ever. I've had to do that with my ex. He was very toxic and at the end violent. I already made up my mind at that point but it was still hard. If he stayed with me I would have lost my kids. It sucks and it hurts but you did good. Now time to keep yourself busy, have a plan set of replies you want to use to keep her thinking nothing is wrong and you're just super busy. Fingers crossed for you on Monday.
  21. Definitely get a thermometer in there. I had a side by side at first and then the French door. Both were a problem but the ones made with the icebox in the fridge are the worst. My side by side didn't last long. The middle wall started getting so hot it could burn you.
  22. I'm am glad you found this site, and glad we can offer some advice. It is sad that many of us have seen similar scenarios and why we are all telling you the same thing. It happens far too often, and men and women like you fall prey to ppl like her. She will bring on the big crocodile tears, beg you for forgiveness anything to make you feel bad. Anything to get back into the house with you or just keep stringing you along to have you continue to get her that GC. Exactly like she is doing to you now. She thinks because those came in soon she will get the GC. She doesn't know you sent in the letter to withdraw. When she finds out it will get ugly. You are so worried about her getting deported even after getting her SSN and EAD. You need to close your heart off, you are not protecting yourself enough. Get angry, get upset, get mad and stomp up and down. Close off your heart to her. I'm not saying go make her life a living (you know). I'm saying back away, and let her chips fall where they fall. Serve those divorce papers, and get far away from her. Block her number, before you lose more then your job and housing.
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