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We risked it. Which wasn't the best idea being that I'm asthmatic and had 4 kids 3 boys which was well a risk just in them 🤣

Even with visa in hand the risk is still there. Some cranky person in your life can report the "wedding" to the consulate. The CO could also be looking at social media and see something themselves and ask for the return of the passport to cancel it. At the POE, if you misspeak and say anything about a husband/wife they will turn you around. They have been know to try to trip ppl up to see what they would say. For example I was asked if the ppl with me was my husband. I said well we're not married yet and that was his mom. They look to see if you would just answer with an automatic Yes. Then at AOS you start submitting evidence. They already have all your social media info and in your Case you have 50 ppl attending, taking pictures, posting on about 50+ social media sites. These posts will show clearly a wedding that was prior to your entry. Kiss your fiance good by as now your K1 was invalid at time of entry. Is this dramatic maybe, but this stuff does happen. Heck of of our very own members went to her brother's wedding and was drilled about it. So how much of a risk do you want to take? Have a huge going away party, but no wedding attire, no formal attire of any kind.

Oh and stop listing to your heart. She can use it against you. Listen to your gut and your head.

Way too many red flags and you know this or you would not be posting. This is how I am seeing it. She came in and applied for asylum. She is well aware that she has a slim chance of being successful of it being granted. She married you, stalled as long as she could to keep stringing you along to stay out of the home (not really being married because her church said so). I would bet money she has someone coaching her. She has outright told you she is in it for the GC. She's not doing this for the kids and church. Tells you to go find someone else because she is in love with her (probably husband and child's father) in her home country. Once she gets that green card she is going to bounce and then bring him over. Please pull the AOS now and talk to a lawyer.

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My advice is to ignore IC. Block and move on.

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TBone, we are rooting for you to find the perfect match. She is out there and you will have to weed through the scammers, but she is out there. Don't settle, life is too short to waste your time on fools.

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All the pieces are falling together.

Oh I thought Zangi was some weird Tbone thingy. I didn't realize it is an actual thing and after actually googling it. Turns out it's an out of country app too. Ya I wouldn't have even entertained this one.

I'm just reading this now. I would run and run fast. Too many red flags. First, is the no actual calls, no facetime, no nothing. Then all of a sudden she wants to meet up at your convention, but suddenly has the worse period in hell. Ya no it doesn't work like that. Why the heck did she send you bloody pictures????? Then a hospital picture of an IV, I'm going to bet this is a guy and in another country who thinks you're an idiot to believe such nonsense. TBone I know what I do know about you is you are no fool and your spidey sense has to be going off. Do not feel so desperate that you ignore your gut. I would not even wait for her next message. Time to block and move on.

Almost all the medical facilities are like that. Maybe one or two that might give you a copy. So all that is perfectly normal. It is good you told the truth about the drug use and explained it to the DR. It will all depend on the Country and how the doctors handles similar situations and how long ago that was. They do have some discretions on how it would be labeled in your chart. Then the next part will be at the interview. Depending on the Doctor's notes that is what the Officer will make the call off of. Now since it is pot you're lucky and you might just have a delay for 6m to a 1yr. Some countries you would have to do random drug tests and redo the medical. One more hoop to jump through but the visa in the end if you pass the medical. Once you jump through the hoops (if they are required) and you get the visa you will not be turned away at the border for that issue. As you would have already been given the all clear. If the doctor gave you the all clear at the medical and you get your visa without jumping through hoops. You again are all clear when you arrive at the border. Well that is as long as you don't do anything to make you inadmissible before entry.

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