At this very moment, the fury marriage (stated in DS160) is actually the legit marriage in the eyes of US govt, and the real marriage to you is not legit. The real marriage to you will become legit to US govt if they see divorce or death cert for the fury marriage which is impossible. However, to the Rwandan govt the there's only one marriage because they don't know about the fury marriage which could have happened in Wonderland or Wakanda. Hence US sees two marriages, Rwanda sees one. But you are on the right path to get US govt to accept the fury marriage as misrep, and that's going to be challenging. I believe there's a solution but nobody has figured it out yet based on VJ.