Thanks everyone for taking the time to respond! I appreciate it!
As a foreigner living here, I want to fit in with the people and customs, but I also want to be able to stand up for myself, if there are grounds to do so.
I have definitely felt that people here (like HR, staff at the Social Security Office, etc) do not understand the US immigration system. It feels uncomfortable to stand up in front of them and act like I’m the expert, when I feel like they should be the experts. Ha ha. E.g.: I have been asked to provide EAD to the SS-office. I have been asked to provide I-94 record to HR.
both situations where I feel like I shouldn’t have to quote google searches to them, and explain why I don’t have those.
I understand it will all get better once I get the SSN, and then state ID/driver’s license, but for right now, I do feel like a second class person - even although I’ve done everything right throughout this whole immigration process.
I guess I had the false expectation, that IR1 being the superior visa over K1 meant that I wouldn’t have any of these problems here.
anyway, it’s good to understand what rights I have and what rights I don’t have.
and apparently buying vapes is not a right. Ha ha. I figured as much, but I do appreciate your explanations.